Media personality Toke Makinwa has taken to
her Instagram page to advise ladies. According
to her, love cannot be forced, and men change
for who they want.
This!!!! I saw this and screamed amen so loud
same thing I was telling someone
yesterday. It has nothing to do with you, stop
blaming yourself for not receiving the kind of
love you gave out, sometimes these things
don’t work because they just aren’t meant to
be and that’s ok. People don’t change for who
they want, people change when the time is
right and quite frankly growth happens when
you let it. That “bastard” is someone’s future
husband and guess what? She’s not going to
see that side of him. Not excusing bad
behavior but as I grow and learn, I realize this
thing called love cannot be forced. Love
yourself enough to swallow that jagged little
pill called truth and walk away with your head
high. You’ll meet your own king and you won’t
need to beg or force him to treat you right.
Ladies this one is for
Recall that the 3-year-old marriage between
Toke Maje Ayida was dissolved in December, last
Makinwa, is the co-host of the ‘Morning Drive’ on
Rhythm 93.7FM, a vlogger and an author.
She had on March 9, 2016, asked the court to
dissolve the marriage on the grounds that the
husband committed adultery.
Justice Morenike Obadina, while delivering
judgment held that Ayida filed an answer to the
petition but did not give oral evidence in support
She said the position of the law was settled as
pleadings did not amount to evidence.
Makinwa had told the court that her husband
committed adultery with his mistress, Anita
Solomon, adding that the relationship produced a
She said since their marriage was contracted,
the husband had “behaved in a way she could
not reasonably be expected to continue to bear”.
Men Change For Who They Want, Love Can’t Be Forced – Toke Makinwa
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